[To dev/1.3] Pipe: Fixed the OOM bug of tablet memory calculation & Optimized the tablet size by memory estimation

[Caideyipi]

Description

As the title said.

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This PR has:

• been self-reviewed.
  • concurrent read
  • concurrent write
  • concurrent read and write
• added documentation for new or modified features or behaviors.
• added Javadocs for most classes and all non-trivial methods.
• added or updated version, license, or notice information
• added comments explaining the "why" and the intent of the code wherever would not be obvious
  for an unfamiliar reader.
• added unit tests or modified existing tests to cover new code paths, ensuring the threshold
  for code coverage.
• added integration tests.
• been tested in a test IoTDB cluster.

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Key changed/added classes (or packages if there are too many classes) in this PR

[codecov]

Codecov Report

❌ Patch coverage is 80.76923% with 5 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.
✅ Project coverage is 41.51%. Comparing base (230cd63) to head (aa07b93).
⚠️ Report is 1 commits behind head on dev/1.3.

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
...iotdb/commons/pipe/receiver/IoTDBFileReceiver.java	0.00%	3 Missing ⚠️
...ain/java/org/apache/iotdb/db/conf/IoTDBConfig.java	60.00%	2 Missing ⚠️

Additional details and impacted files

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##             dev/1.3   #17451      +/-   ##
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- Coverage      41.51%   41.51%   -0.01%     
  Complexity       227      227              
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  Files           3596     3596              
  Lines         236859   236841      -18     
  Branches       28677    28664      -13     
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- Hits           98342    98323      -19     
- Misses        138517   138518       +1     

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Quality Gate passed

Issues
8 New issues
0 Accepted issues

Measures
0 Security Hotspots
0.0% Coverage on New Code
0.0% Duplication on New Code

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